By the time you read this, I’ll be long gone. I kissed you on your left cheek just before I left. You know the one with the dimple? You were too far in sleep to realize though. Yep, you were in one of those

“Maybe I should check your pulse” kind of sleeps?

But not last night though. Oh no, last night you were wide awake over and over again.  My mind body and soul is content and overwhelmed. This space we shared has become a very friendly place to travel. I will always turn in frequent flyer miles for you and promise to never complain during turbulence either.

Only euphoria dwells in these clouds.

This euphoria gives Iguacu waterfalls at arm’s length as Mediterranean winds brush my face.
I still smell scattered scents that travel gently over hills and mountain tops, peaks and valleys.
Though I balance the risk to travel with no net beneath me, I’d do it over and over again. I trust that pleasure will catch my fall.

This is quite a compromising position for someone like me, because I don’t like saying goodbye to you.

As I stand here, readying myself to leave you once more, my eyes wander around this room, this place in astonishment as to how you pulled it off….

How did you transform this humble flat into glorious spaces?

Leaving you are the hardest steps to take. Your touch is addicting and a habit that I chose to never rehabilitate. You have become as nature to me.

Yours Always,
~ XOXO

Music Mums by: Slique -Addicted

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1 is my keeper
One is kept,
By 1 I slumber
By one I’ve slept.

We 2 are joined
At the hip,
We two speak loosely
Like sinking ships.

3 days of loneliness
Within this space,
Three day of wishing
To see his face.

4 times the love
No times the pleasure,
But for you my love
Transfers to no measure.

5 times the work
With no pay in hand,
Five days past
Since the love of this man.

6 minute tops
And it’s over again,
Six hours of passion
Should be a sin.

7 days complete
Thank God to kingdom come,
Seven days begins
With my truest lovely one.

Katrina Gurl 2008
The Balcony View Books

Are you a supervisory wife? Do you take your husband for granted? Most women don’t realize it but they abuse their husbands daily and don’t even realize it. If we aren’t getting what we want from our man could it be because we are not treating our man like a man? Most men don’t like to be told what to do like children, yet, the supervisory wife does just that, NOT LET THE MAN BE A MAN!!!

Belittling Your Man’s Decisions…

This is crucial in a marriage. As women, we have been taught from youth to go after our dreams, goals and hopes for our lives at all cost no matter the consequences even if that means disrespecting your husband’s needs or wishes. Of course, we as women can still chase our dreams, but we as woman MUST also consider our men in all operations of our aspirations. If you have a good man, he will always be willing to WORK his desires around your dreams.

When a Wife Rejects a Man…

Have you told your man (just this very week in fact) that you were too tired or had a headache to deter him from even attempting to make love to you? As today’s wife, we should take every opportunity to please our man regardless if we feel like it or not because please believe, if a man is sexually pushed to the limit, he WILL cheat (in most cases, not all).

However, as a side note to MEN: If sex is good, a woman’s headaches will NEVER be an excuse. So please know that if a woman is constantly resisting you, seek marriage counseling – resistance is the rawest sense that she is NOT being satisfied sexually.

Never Get in the Way of Male Bonding Time…

If time with his friends lack getting in the way of family time, your time and his work time, LET THE MAN GO! Stop complaining about his friends. If a man has to choose between his best buds and his wife he will always do the latter, he will CHOOSE BOTH! However this will ultimately cause friction in the relationship AND cause him to lie about hanging out with HIS OWN DAMN FRIENDS! Face it wives, men need that male bonding time, it makes them overall happier people and even more happy when the wife can at least tolerate his friends.

Cooking and Cleanting (I did not misspell that, Tyler Perry just popped in my head)…

People have said for AGES that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. If you ask any man, he’ll tell you that when he is taken care of through a nutritional source, he feels loved. He pictures comfort in growing old with you. There are so many ways to cook fast meals these days that it’s a shame we don’t. Women no longer have to slave over a hot stove. The microwave and prepackaged meals are our friend ladies.

Respect…

It’s hard for a supervisory wife to show respect to her husband. Supervisory women ALWAYS have to be in control. When people feel as though they NEED to be in control ALL THE TIME, it leaves very little room or need for the husband. Treating our husband’s like they are children and incompetent of managing feeble tasks is a showing him a lack of respect. We as wives must build up the man we love OR another woman will. Think about that for a moment! If YOU can’t stomach that thought, start showing respect. Keep in mind, NO MAN WANTS A BULLY FOR A WIFE!

Territory…

By nature, men are wired to protect what they love, when it comes to his wife, even more so. Nowadays, women act as if they don’t even a man to do what it is they do by nature and that is to PROTECT HIS TERRITORY and makes sure his woman, family and all that he loves is safe. When a supervisory woman takes on even that role, it makes the husband feel inadequate and useless.

Give In…

Submitting to your husbands is not a sign of weakness ladies. It’s actually a sign of strength.
By allowing your selfish ways to cease, you’d also learn that GIVING IN actually gives you as a wife more control than you’ll ever know in the marriage. This will make you a better person, wife and lover to your husband. In closing, please know that if you are not willing to fight for your marriage another woman will come along and do what you will not.

This blog is not to create a fear of losing your man if you do not comply. This blog is created to oblige awareness in the REALITY of how simply changes that we make NOW may keep OUR relationships HEALTHY! Health is a process we are to take on in the BEGINNING, not when things are already at filter!

Written by Katrina Gurl 2010

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Music Mums: by Better Wright -Clean Up Woman

THREE YEARS – THIRTY-SIX MONTHS – ONE THOUSAND AND NINETY-FIVE DAYS - twenty six thousand and two hundred and eighty hours – 37,843,200 minutes and 2,270,592,000 seconds. That was the exact time right down to the exact second he just had spent over the last three years in the federal correctional facilities – prison. Now what? Wearing what he had on three years ago plus nine minutes, twenty-two seconds and counting Miles Jacob looked up to the silky blue sky and wondered what he was to do next. This was the exit from federal prison. Still looking fashionable: Jet-black Armani suit, black Cole Haan shoes, a steel TAG Heuer on his wrist and a black Prada backpack slung over his right shoulder with a little more than forty-four thousand in cash – Miles Jacob preceded up 4th Street – in the heart of downtown Austin, Texas. Austin was full of blissful memories for Miles but nothing that seemed even remotely close to what his life was now. Miles instantly saw moments of Austin flashing back somewhere in his mind. Somewhere in his mind he was back in Austin. Miles started daydreaming of the time Sydney and he had first visited Austin.

Sports, Love, Spies, Lies, & More…

So what more could you want from a André Maxwell Jacob novel? Drama… Romance… Deceit… Thrills… Comedy… Suspense… Adventure? Well you get it all. Jacob slams all this and more into a soon to be released best seller. To purchase this novel click the Purchase Novel for a secure site to purchase your copy of, And Then There Was Life! If you think you are ready to know more about Miles’ world then you need to be exploring the excerpts. Read this fast pace scenes that will only leave you wanting more.

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Genre: Sports, Espionage, Romance, Erotic, & Drama Thriller

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The Balcony View is enamored with “And Then There Was Life” We predict that  it will become a best selling novel in due time!

“The reality draws you in page after page – a very seductive, an irresistible read.”

Have you been reading headlines of cheaters checking into addiction Clinics claiming their CHEATING WAYS as medical conditions? Folks seem unable to take responsibility for bad behavior these days. Have we become a society that uses emotional illness as an excuse for cheating? For example, Jesse James cheats on his wife and goes into rehab for sexual addiction. The big question is, is he a sex addict or just a FLAT OUT CHEATER???

If he is a flat out cheater then the only rehab he needs to consider is self-control and he can do that at home. Sex addiction is another pseudo concept, certifying sex therapist and licensed psychotherapist to claim yet another figure to their annual income.

The Balcony View Books shares this view: If you have an addition get help BUT if you using this new found impediment as an EXCUSE for cheating, get over yourself, stand up, be real and simple own up to YOUR WRONG.

On the other hand, if sex addictions are real claims they do need to be professionally assessed.

Answer these 12 questions. Maybe you’ll learn that you have a problem with sexual addiction.

1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?

2. Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose?

3. Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?

4. Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?

5. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?

6. Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships? Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?

7. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?

8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief?

9. Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?

10. Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?

11. Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?

12. Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?

If you answered YES to more than one of these questions, yep, you may be a Sex Addict! If you have answer YES to 5 or more…you are just a flat out cheater LOL!!!!

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Music Mums by Robin Thick: It’s In the Morning

People who are compassionately touched often feel happier, more energetic, more secure, more confident, and more comfortable in public surroundings.

Understanding how truly essential touch is, perhaps we’d also understand the beneficial positive changes that touch may change our intimate relationships.

We take for granted how a gentle touch, a hug, or a soft kiss impacts our physiology, but we are certain that it does.

Appropriate touch is a powerful and tender way to easily and simply bring feelings of love into a relationship. Touch is a way to share or express feelings that may be more powerful than the spoken word or gift giving.

Touch is one of the most powerful and sensitive of all senses. Kind and appropriate touching sends a message to our very spirit and heart that we are valued, that we are safe, that we matter…

I truly believe that the more we feel loved, appreciated, cherished, and valued, as a human being, the healthier, happier, and more fulfilling our relationships.

Remember, the art of touch is just as powerful as our need for food.

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Music Mums by: MARQUES HOUSTON – NAKED

The world is going through an technological overload and the way we communicate with others has changed. Texting has become the new actual phone convo. Electronic flirting (is what I call it) with benefits that last the relationship all day.

Follow these testing do’s & don’ts before your next textual experience…

Don’t text under the influence of drugs or while drinking:
Don’t send text messages while under the influence, this could result in a seriously embarrassing situation e.g. texting your ex that you’re still in love with him or disclosing a very sluttish secret about yourself to somebody you like! Text messages, since they are written, can be saved by the recipient and conceivably used as blackmail or can be forwarded to everybody and anybody.

Double check what you have written BEFORE pressing send:
This is very important. Make sure you double check the recipient’s phone number before pressing Send. It could happen that a really sexual text message which was intended for your Bf goes to a friend or worse your dad! Remember, written documents, have the potential to cause a lot of problems.

NO Texting while driving:
Don’t mix texting and driving. You have a very high chance of meeting with an accident.
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Don’t be rude – Never text in front of company:
Texting when you’re out with someone could turn them off completely. It makes a person feel that you have no respect for there time. Hence, avoid texting when out in an intimate environment. It’s extremely rude and insensitive.

Always end the text on the good foot:
Text messaging is not favorable to prolonged chats. Leave the person wanting more. Overly long text chats become monotonous and boring. After a few text messages just leave the last message unanswered – it will keep the excitement alive.

Don’t abbreviate so much that you are misunderstood:
Packing your messages with full of complicated short forms and words can be very un-sexy. Also, avoid being too sarcastic, it will not be received in the right humor from the other person and can cause trouble. Stick to simple but meaningful sentences.

Text time sensitive:
Its not such a good idea to message someone at 3 am in the morning, just because you cant sleep does not mean the other person can’t either. Also, expecting her/him to be all mushy in the office hours is not feasible either. Make sure you message at the right time.

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Hmmm…Why do men love strip clubs? This is an age old question that women have been pondering over for generations. Some men think frequenting strip clubs are just boys being boys, a fun pass time or a choice of entertainment. While women on the other hand, look at these frequent visitations as a form of cheating.

Some women my may deduct spending (what seems to be) intimate time with another female may become a filler for ultimate rejection to her in the relationship.

FOR THIS CAUSE, a while ago The Balcony View Books went on a personal mission to find out why strip clubs continued boom even while the economy failed. In a Georgia’s gentlemen club we found much more than the obvious reasons men enjoy this type of entertainment.

Okay okay sure, the obvious reason came to mind: men will be men and lust will always prevail.

However, soon as we entered the building, hospitality overwhelmed the place. We were greeted with friendly smiles, positivity and respect right from the very start. We noticed that as people came in as couples, the hostess became even more respectful and humble as well. As a truthful statement pertaining to service as of waitress duties, our reviews would come with much kudos.

When men go to these clubs, they know FOR SURE that if they spend money THEY WILL have a good time. They also know that rejection most likely will NOT happen.

Realize this:

• Men, as a general rule, are visually stimulated and, for the most part, can separate the act of sex from emotion.
• And two, the male ego is quite likely the most fragile creature on the planet.

Another reason men flock to strip clubs is because they can live out secret fantasies with a beautiful woman. The average man understands that most of the working girls in these clubs would never date them in a real life setting.  But for the moment the man has a gorgeous woman before him actually agreeing with everything he says and he LOVES it.

Unlike the way his wife or girlfriend may receive him. No nagging, no rejection. In fact, the word “NO” doesn’t even seem exist in the building. For his pleasure, sexy naked women sitting right in front of him yielding to his every whim that he is willing to pay for LOL!

How about this:

• Take the time to dress for love making (just like the strippers do).
  Visit an adult store for ideas, such as www.angelicpleasures.net

• Take time to seduce (just like the strippers do).
  Learn how to use an in home stripper pole by visiting www.frommindtobody.com

• Take time to smile, show hospitality and respect (just like the strippers do).

• Take care of you bodies (just like the strippers do).
  Workout to stay healthy and to keep stamina for lasting sex.

In closing, in no fashion or form does The Balcony View Books suggest that ALL women in ALL relationships go TO strip clubs or take on a stripper’s lifestyle.  All we are suggesting is that in relationships there is always room to Grow, Compromise and Become Better to and for one another.

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